saying goodbye to the mother city: a week in cape town before our big move

As I sit down to write this, I’m filled with both gratitude and a twinge of sadness. Our week in Cape Town was more than just a holiday, it was a farewell. With our big move to the UK just around the corner, this trip was about soaking up every last drop of what we love most: time with family, good food, familiar places, and all the little moments that make Cape Town feel like home.

Wednesday: Family, Food, and Chicken Schnitzels

Thursday: Ramen, Chocolate, and a Surprise from Berlin

A bowl of ramen topped with a soft-boiled egg and fresh greens, alongside dumplings and drinks.
A cup of rich dark hot chocolate served with a delicate swirl of cream.
A building with ‘We Have Beer’ sign individually spelt out in 10 separate windows.

Friday: A Vineyard Kind of Day

Burgandy couch in front of wooden shelves stocked with wine.
Wine glass with red wine and an ‘Ernie Els Wines Stellenbosch’ label.

Saturday: Beers, Bites, and 80s Moves

We grabbed lunch at Vasco da Gama FC, a Portuguese sports bar. I had grilled calamari and chips (perfection), and Jeremy had a pork fillet topped with mushrooms and chilli, paired with milho frito, a deliciously crunchy cornmeal side dish.

That evening we headed to Danskraal, a dance hall famous for its sokkies, a style of dance that is unique to Southern Africa and popular mostly with Afrikaners, and langarm. It was an 80s-themed birthday celebration so think legwarmers, scrunchies and fishnet gloves. People brought their own snacks and cooler boxes filled with drink (yes, really), and despite some repeated songs and a DJ yelling out, “Who wants to get pregnant??” (??), we had an absolute blast. Jeremy, ever the Englishman, said watching the langarm dancers was like watching a washing machine going round and round 😂

Sunday: Bloubergstrand and Bittersweet Goodbyes

Sunday was quieter. We drove to Bloubergstrand for lunch at the Blue Peter Hotel. Bloubergstrand Beach is a place that holds deep meaning for our family as it’s where my maternal grandmother’s ashes were scattered. Being there with my maternal family felt grounding, like a moment of presence in the whirlwind of change. I had fried calamari and chips and Jeremy had the hake and calamari combo and while the food was good, the company and the sea breeze were better.

After lunch and heartfelt goodbyes, we headed back for a final family gathering, this time with my paternal side. We had a proper South African braai, filled with laughter, boerewors, chops, ribs, and my grandmother’s famous potato salad. The smoky smell of the fire, the crackle of wood, and the familiar rhythm of family stories and jokes filled the evening air. It was the perfect way to close out our last weekend in Cape Town being surrounded by the people who helped raise me, shape me, and made sure to send us off with full bellies and fuller hearts.

Monday: Last Goodbyes and a Gatsby Send-Off

With our bellies full, we boarded our flight and said goodbye to Cape Town. It may be a while before we’re back, but this week gave us a treasure trove of memories to carry across oceans.

Until next time, Mother City.

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